There was a plan.
First a, then b, finally c.
It didn’t happen that way
This, that, and them couldn’t be controlled
didn’t respond as desired
And all went to pieces
Or so it seemed.

Wait.  What about what did happen
Don’t judge, just observe
What did occur.  And how.
Don’t judge, just observe.
What feeling led to which other feeling.
Don’t judge, just observe.

Oh, that was the lesson.